Writings & Recordings

Saying wedding vows is one thing. Living up to them is quite another. cross posted to New York Times Modern Love . The first time I married my wife, she was wearing a big white dress, and all our friends and family were there. The second time I married my wife, she wasn’t even in the room, though her mother was. The third time I married my wife, it was just the two of us and our teenage children in the woods. At the Big White Dress wedding, Alison and I were 25 and working ha